I met a nice guy on line. We had a great first date. I was telling my girlfriend only to discover that she is now corresponding with him. I told her … but she seems set on meeting him. I feel weird. I don’t what to do. I am a little pissed at my friend for not considering my feelings.
Newsflash: This chick is NOT your friend. And, in case I was not clear, this girl is no friend to you. How inconsiderate. Lose the friend. Let the guy know what is going on. He will have to choose and make a decision. If he chooses you — great! If you chooses her – good riddance. They both deserve each other. Move on and find a guy AND a friend who deserves you.
I met a guy once, pre-online dating days, at a social group I belong to. We really connected and had great chemistry. One night after a group meeting Hottie and I went out for a quick drink. We got to the pub and right behind us was a “friend” of mine from the group, who apparently had the hots for Hottie….she wedged herself between us and flirted her slutty ass off all night. By the time we left, I was plotting revenge. Perhaps I should let the air out of her tires? Douse her food with neuro-toxins?
Turned out I didn’t have to. Hottie waited by my car with me til Slut Girl left and then he asked me out…YAY. And…BONUS….she was driving past us as he leaned over and kissed me! Every dog has it’s day and every false friend will eventually have to watch you make out with Hottie. I say ditch the Bitch….she’s not a friend.